Well, sweetie, I hope if you have children, you won't consider that pattern by which to raise them. If you do, you are in for a very bad time of it. I have worked with children for many years and I can tell you that that is not the way to go. They aren't trying to be "heard" ....they are trying to have their way about everything. And the second verse to that song goes like this....the more of their way they get--the more they will demand. Now, you can take this advice from what you probably consider an old woman that doesn't know much, or you can follow that other advice and raise a tyrant. But, I sure hope you won't listen to the foolish writings of some theories. ((hug)).
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!