((((((((((Morgan))))))))))))) Even IF that is what he wants to talk about, there are still many WAS that change their mind in the 11th hour. There is still time.
Having said that, I totally feel for you and wanting to be 'ready'. Can a LBS *ever* really be ready when they are still wanting to save their marriage? I don't see how they could. Shoot, even WAS have second thoughts when confronted with the reality.
You are beautiful, funny, intelligent, caring (all this so apparent from just this forum) and I can only imagine how great you are in real life. Your H is messed up. It's really is NOT you.
I know that the people that care for us, just want this to be over and want our spouse to stop d!ckng us around, but I always feel a little miffed about this. *I* will know when I am ready to give up and I don't "appreciate" outsiders trying to speed up the process. But, that's just me.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
