Morgan, you don't have to tell him anything. go sit in the hockey rink parking lot and cry your eyes out. Bring a book to read, bring your journal to write things down. But just have a plan to get away. The time limit is when you've had enough. If you want to do the movie then watch the clock. But you don't need to decide that up front. Just have an out.
And you don't need to tell him when he gets there. When you feel you've had enough, just get up and say so. You don't answer to him. And just say that you need to do this for YOU. it is NOT about him.
I'll check in later... gotta run to a meeting


Me: 41
H: 42
Married: 13Y, together 24
Kids: S11, S9, D6
Bomb: 7/11/06, now piecing