My H is a manipulating, control-freak...he does not like when i try to detach...and he WON'T detach...

It keeps him going in circles...

Detaching does take away their control....

Now if I can just forget all the terrible things he did/said....


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller