Oh M, and another thing. Have something to do after. Don't let him leave while you're still there. Set a time limit for the talk and say that you have somewhere to go. This is for your benefit for two reasons: first so that you're not held hostage if things go badly for an indefinite period of time. Secondly, so you have something to do after (even if it is a movie by yourself)
Me: 41 H: 42 Married: 13Y, together 24 Kids: S11, S9, D6 Bomb: 7/11/06, now piecing
