The funny/wierd (and perhaps good) thing about all of this, is I will admit we had drifted apart a bit (does not justify A), but all of this coming up, has really made me realize I DO love my W, possibly more than I realized before - I just want us both to be at that same level.
Bwild- I admit also that we'd drifted apart. I just felt that with a little one at home and different schedules it was only temporary. H has even told people that we made sacrifices so that D3 could be home instead of in daycare. He told someone not long ago that the reason we didn't get to spend much time together is because we didn't feel comfortable leaving D3 with anyone but family. However, us not spending time together & having time to connect is the reason the A started. You are right though, it does not justify the A. They still made a choice to allow the A to start or grow. I have not always been happy, but never once thought of an A. I told my H that I love him very much and that I intend to fight for my M.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
