You're right about most of us thinking things are fine when WHAM, we get hit with a bomb. I have to admit, that there were a few times in the past that I said.....hey, things aren't great right now, but it's only temporary.....D3 is little, but when she gets a bit older things will even out....our schedules will get better....we'll spend more time together...etc. I wish I would have stopped myself right then and there.
I updated my thread.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day