Cat,
I hope that your H truly appreciates you standing admist the winds of career futility...I relate a lot with your husbands feelings and expectations over his job...at least he loves his job One thing I have to remind myself is that just because I have "certain" expectations for my job choice doesnt mean that god has the same expectation....oddly, he has a better grasp at the situation. One thing for certain about life is that it constantly changes...this can give hope...

I also understand your feelings of your needs being met...Your patience will only reap good fortune no matter what direction your M takes. OUR FEELINGS, OUR NEEDS I guess should be met by us...much like his needs...then let the cup runneth over!


I have my abacus out and will begin to count my blessings as well as yours...just think if all of us combine our blessings...
peace....