private caller...could just be a wrong number. I know, my mind would go to the same place, but remember the law firm ones on my caller id...turned out to be a wrong number. not sure if h thinks otherwise, I know I would, but the fact is you don't know. if there is a pattern that starts up again, well, yeah, more likely. but don't let one phone call worry you too much.
you are I are doing things the same thing I think...withdrawing instead of detaching. I plan to re-read DB/DR this week. that self-preservation mode is strong, though, isn't it?
take care, and enjoy pizza day! (ewww on those anchovies, though, andy)
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