Ok, you are officially getting a big slap on the hand from me! You need to stop -- in a way when you make comments like that, you are egging her on for an argument, not for her to so "oh, no, dearest, I wasn't w/ OM last night. I actually just was so tired, I fell asleep early. I'm really sorry that I didn't call."

If she's going to come around, she needs to do it on her terms and on her time table. Making comments, etc. that may make her feel "guilty" will not put you in a good light, trust me. It will make her angry and make her turn away from you.

You need to be the strong, supportive, loving H that she will want to come back to once she gets her sh*t together.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10