Don't think that this may break the M - think that this will show you how strong the M is!!! You will come across upsets as you go. It won't all be peace and harmony from now on BUT what you are doing is learning how to prblem solve BEFORE things get out of hand again. It is just another step along the journey.

My H and I have down periods and I expect life will be like that. It's just now we have learnt to try to talk about things. I still have days when I think that if I don't do what he wants he will have another A but they are transitory things - underpinning it all is that we both WANT to be together and so we will find ways to make it work. That is what you have to do here.

you will get through this and be stronger for it.

(((HUGS)))

saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength