I will try both of the your suggestions, its just really hard, I truly don't know what to do for the best. I feel like this is going to be the breaking of the marriage, he is so set in not giving up friends, which is not what I am asking. By the way, the tat we were supposed to get is called a celtic love knot.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!