Thank you both!!

I will try both of the your suggestions, its just really hard, I truly don't know what to do for the best.
I feel like this is going to be the breaking of the marriage, he is so set in not giving up friends, which is not what I am asking.
By the way, the tat we were supposed to get is called a celtic love knot.


Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda