Originally Posted By: angelica



So what I am saying is that there is little to be gained in initiating contact, and much to be gained for your peace of mind in staying out of it. If you want to reconcile, perhaps it is better to have heard less, rather than more alien spew. There is also the possibility that they may take it out on someone else [shock horror, the OW, if they can't spew at you. Just a thought]



Goodmorning Angelica! Wonderful post....

This particular paragraph is really really true! This is the great thing about NO CONTACT. You take away their control. You leave them whirling away and nowhere to spit and spew. Meanwhile, someone else is getting their crazy antics and your getting your MENTAL HEALTH back. So if/when/if-ever they walk out into the light again, you don't have to recall so many "ugly" things that were said during their "difficult moments"


Change the Policy.
Allow PM's
Free all of us.

Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!

:-)