If you want your M to work you need to keep a positive attitude around your W. after all you would not want to be around someone that is pisssed all of the time right? So snooping will get you no where. You already know what you need to know she had/is having and A. Now work on yourself. Snooping and finding more things out will put you in a bad mood which in turn will put your W in a bad mood and possibly make her want to be with the OM who is in a better mood.
Understand??
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know