There and Back, #10

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Hey Morgan, Wow, a lot has happened over the weekend. And I'm not talking about the Sox winning the ALCS....

Here's my take. Your H still feels some connection towards you; perhaps it is part territorial, part jealousy since he suspects you are dating anyway, and partly because he does still care about you. And perhaps partly because he feels some guilt. Does it matter what he feels? Nope.
Now, don't me wrong, in some cases keeping that physical connection may be something that turns things around. As long as you are okay with the aftermath whatever it may be, then it is your decision.

H and I used to get into those situtations every once in a while during what I call the separation while living together phase. I couldn't handle what happened after. H would go into a nose dive saying how he wished he didn't do that, how wrong it was. It made me feel like cr@p. So I stopped. What I am trying to get at is - you'll know if it is right for you in your sitch.
Perhaps the asking H how his day was and little things will open a new door. Remember, more of what works, less of what doesn't. And most importantly, this is all about you and how you feel. You need to monitor that because, let's be honest,your H cannot and is not.

The pictures of you and the kids are awesome. Did you have those done at the Gristmill? I love that place. I got engaged at the Wayside Inn and H took me there on Valentine's Day this year. Sort of a turning point for us though it took several more months for him to recommit.

Enjoy another sunny, warm day.