Moving forward

[saffie]

I understand that but what is the point. You have found out what you need to and it is just another irritant.

My H had a full blown A. I don't bother checking up on him. What hurts more than him having the A is the fact that he had a NEEDED to have an A. That's where my attention went - I had to help him get rid of that need to stop him wanting an A. Lets face it they can do something like that at any time - we can't stop them if they want to - we have to stop them wanting to and that takes up a lot of energy; all the energy and MORE that has been used on snooping.

To be fair - I am not a good snoop - my H had been laying a trail for me to find out about his A and I never did. He told me in the end!!! So snooping isn't my forte. I don't understand why, either, because I can be very devious when I want to be and I am a worrier, but YAY!!!, I have discovered today I am not a snooper!!! They say you learn something new every day

Saffie