Hey Stilltrying.Read your thread from front to back,and I'm friggin stoked for you!

Two pages in,I was really wondering about you.You seemed a bit too manipulative and angry for things to work.

But man,your progress is awesome.

My wife left me just over a month ago,and we went totally dark on each other.I so wanted to get in her business,but respected her space.Now,with 180s and GALs,I have shown her that I am a strong man who will do anything for my family,and she has responded by telling me she loves me and wants to get counseling.

We are still seperated,and quite distant,honestly,but hope is all I ever wanted,and I have that.

I'd kill for contact with my W like you have,so try to fully appreciate that.

You rock man.Keep at it.

Me:34
W:31
Daughter:6
Married:5 years on May 24
Seperated from Sept 07 to Nov 07
2nd Seperation Mar 28 08 til now
EAs/PAs on both sides since then
Received divorce papers end of August