Don't beat yourself up about your D - not only one day will she understand - she will think you 'rock' and will have benefitted so much from the role model her mother has shown her.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength