Seems like he has finally gotten the message not to pursue but he is choosing to go dark himself.
d and I called his mobile last night so she could say good night (I suggested it) but he didn't answer so we both left messages.
I went swimming this morning up at the gym where he works and he came in the pool area while I was doing laps. I don't know if he saw me or not. I'm a bit hard to miss...bright aqua swim cap. He came in to speak to the youth talent squad coach while the kids were swimming (he does the strength adn conditioning of the older kids - the ones that are getting near the top of their game and from what he told me a while ago their coach is pretty pleased with the work h has been doing with them. I'm proud of him - he is very good at what he does). It is possible he didnt' see me though this has become my routine (swimming on Tues mornings), not that I've told him that though.
when I came home and after I had gotten d up I suggested we call daddy and say good morning. Again, no answer, we left a message.
He is picking d up from school today and I will be collecting her from him up at his work (the gym). he will be in between classes so it's highly unlikely he'll have time to talk, even if he wanted to. I predict that he won't speak to me.
Man...I jsut want to be friendly and amicable. I don't want to walk on eggshells to think that he's mad/hurt, but I don't want to give him the 'come on' either. It seems to be either extreme with him, and I just don't seem to be able to comfortably find the middle ground.
