I dont know if you need to tell him that you are planning on getting into better shape, but I definately think that you should for many reasons. First of all, it feels good. Plus you will be happier with your self for doing something positive and improving your appearance.
I still think that you should stop letting him have his cake and eating it too by telling him that you dont feel right about having sex with him if he cant commit to working on the marriage. That might shake things up.
Be strong.
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair
