I didn't talk r with her until she brought it up. I may have prodded a little bcause I could tell she was angry at me. I told her she should be the one moving out very calmly and without anger or emotion.
still don't think there is OM. she went on last trip with her sister. but of course I do have a sliver of doubt on OM.
I changed my course of action in asking her to leave because its her issue, she should be leaving. if she needs more space than I'm giving or offering than I think she should go get it. I'd like it to be more difficult for her than me. I think if I'm out its much easier to get comfortable and get rid of me. and, all the advice I was hearing and reading was why should I have to leave? so, if I did see some movement or progress in her thoughts, I would have maybe moved out.
shes obviously mad I have changed on what I said I would do. but hasn't she flipped on some big promises?
I am going to do my best to leave her alone and have a positive friendly attitude. but she doesn't care if we get along, its that she doesn't love me anymore. how do I get her to feel that again?
