it's all a moot point.

Tonight we were IMing about DD car, etc. My phone rang and it was the agent for the lease house seeing what I had decided. I said I wasn't going to move forward at this time.

I IM to H, "Lease" house agent wanted to make sure I didn't want the rental..I don't, right?

H "Yeah, we can't afford it right now."
Me "oh. Is it just about the benjamins?"
H "I don't want to talk about it."
Me "Well, all you have to do is say "yes it is" or "no it's not"
H "I DONT WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT"
Me "Heh. Yeah. Ok."
and then he put himself on 'busy'

AnyHOO- Yeah, stupid me for asking, stupider me for asking more than once; and even STUPIDER ME for thinking that yesterday evening/last night meant anything at all.

Oh well.


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing