Theo, I am rarely here on the boards, but do check in on you once a week or more often when possible. You may remember I turned my H in to his work, got him fired, and he only later found out what I did. Nightmare. But there IS NO RIGHT ANSWER to these situations. What could you have done? I don't know. Just know I support you, and I'm sorry for the fallout. This too shall pass. The anger/hatred at you peaks early after this stuff, and actually it will wane. Believe it or not (oh, it still comes up on occasion in a heated argument, but not like back in the aftermath of discovery)
Must sleep. Too many 12hour shifts. And no interest yet from the many resumes sent this month. sigh. I'm past my prime, I hate getting older.
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3
