oh, also... she doesnt tend to bring things up at random. she tends to stew. So its not so much a matter of me walking away when she brings things up.

It's more a matter of,

- I bring up something nice. either something i'd like to offer her as a gift, or a suggestion on something fun to do., or...

- she replies with, "[decline], I'm still harboring a lot of anger at you, from [yesterday/last week/last month]". So, "no". with implications to me of, "and I'll never do anything ELSE that you would like either.. i have no desire to forgive or forget this incident"


How would you suggest I respond in that situation?


Last edited by Dom R; 10/23/07 01:24 AM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle