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I guess first off I say get to the counseling session....give it a chance, see how it goes. Trust me, as one who knows all to well, the trust (if you're willing to try) will take a LONG time to come back. It WILL get better. Unfortunately, I am on my second time around on this board. Guess I fell of my DB wagon the last time.

As far as the snooping? As I've been told, snooping to find out what was going on and verify something was actually happening....okay. It's now that you know and that it's out in the open that the snooping has to stop.

The people on this board and this forum are the most amazing people I have ever come in contact with. Just keep coming here and posting, venting, asking questions. I'm still in the midst of my sitch.....H knows I know, but I don't believe he's ended things. There are others who are starting to piece their M's back together. They ALL have wonderful thoughts. This is also a great place to come and laugh. I'm amazed at how I come on to vent or cry about things and I come away laughing. Not because it's a funny thing we're all dealing with, but we've found ways to lighten each others lives.

I'll be anxious to see how things go for you and what people have to say. Stay with us. I feel great for you that your W wants to work things out. It will get better.

SueS


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day