yeah, I can see how that is frustrating. I don't know what most of the talks are about. maybe its time to set some bounderies...if its about bills, e-mail her (or talk to her, I find e-mail better for some reason) and say you need to sit down by x date to talk about bills. give her a choice of dates, see what works for her, but also let her know if said talk doesn't happen by x date, you'll understand that this is something she prefers you to handle as you see fit. if she bails or avoids, well, do what works for you. then act as if till it kills you.
maybe? I don't know. I guess that is one good thing, H and I have many, many issues, but we co-parent well and deal with business things well (for the most part).
eta, just re-read your last post. why the M/R talks? if she is avoiding them, well, that tells you something right there. make your own choices in the matter. I'm not saying its easy to do. I'm trying to think of an instance where H and I have a M/R talk, and I because of our situation, we don't right now. I know its normal in separations. do you guys have a MC? maybe keep it to sessions with the MC? or if you guys don't, maybe suggest one? or if that isn't an option, and she still doesn't want to talk R/M and you still do, well, wow, I don't know what to say.
not much help here, am I?
Last edited by morgan; 10/22/0711:03 PM.
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