I remember having such a hard time with detaching eeeeeeeeek
every thread of mine was named detaching. I was at a loss for on how I would manage it, Gosh I was so hard headed then, about it.
I did it half hour by half hour. Finally I just put my foot down to try.
That is how i got thru it.
I would email someone and say, Ok, I did it , I will email you back in half hour and tell you that I didn't contact him again.
And so on until half hours turned into hours, then finally days.
We have 2 children together, so complete darkness is impossible, but I get pretty darn close.
You can all do this.
Then I realized after a long while, that NC was for me and my sanity.
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Lissie! How are you doing? I miss talking to you! I sure hope things are going well for you! I have been so busy with things that I haven't been on here very much! Please write or email and tell me how you are doing!