sorry, had to cut off quickly there...realized the time and needed to put the kids to bed.
yeah, it would be nice to diffuse the anger and figure out what is best for her not to stew and stuff, but honestly, that is something she has to do, you can't do it for her. it sucks, but there is is. you can't change her..nothing you do will change her. you can influence her subtly by changing your own behavior, you can try not to let it get to you, or pretend that it doesn't (read mark's posts over on infidelity, i swear the man is a master at it).
wish I had more words of wisdom for you. its hard when things are not logical. it would be nice if there was a roadmap that would let us know the right paths to take and such.
good luck!
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
