honestly, in that situation, I'd be BS at you, because you were being controlling. controlling does not equal strong in my book.
maybe it would have worked if you had approached it as, "I'd like to sit down and talk to you. when would be a good time?" if you leave it like that, putting the ball a bit in her court, as opposed to saying, "we're going to talk about xyz on this date." then not even going forward until the agenda you had in your mind was discussed, well, like I said, I would have thought you were being an ass.
don't really know your history, so don't know what the issues are at all. but I would feel that way if I loved you. can imagine just how much more I would resent it if I were a delusional waw.
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