Had lost touch with your ongoing situation. Thought that you had sold, bought, and moved on ... etc. What a surprise to find out I am completely WRONG again!!! Dang ... that bites for me.
But ... for you ... hey, you seem to be handling your big gerl self pretty good there. I agree with the dating around an OW thing. Sounds like he feels dating you would be a good thing. Now he just needs to decide it is the future he wants to move toward. The OW will become his dark past in time. You just do what you are doing and give him that time, while letting him know you will not be around forever.
Let him occasionally see the prize, but keep the door locked down tight until he deserves to be let back around. He is thinking about you while he is away. He is. And he should.
