The honest answer? If she did nothing differently I'd probably just avoid her as much as I could and continue to resent her until I finally decided I've had enough and left. What should I do differently if she stayed? I haven't the slightest idea.
Yeah, she loves me and still cares about me and still on some level hopes we can work things out. There is only so long I can sit here trying being rejected at every turn. No I'm not giving up but I need a break. I'm getting closer and closer to a point of indifference where I don't really care either way as long as I get some resolution.
Plus, sorry, I know my W and it isn't a question of whether she'd go or not. She's going to go. It's either going to be amicable, or a battle. It isn't a question. You can say that she might not go if she had to do 100% of the effort. Sorry, she will.
