Hardly faking it anymore: Puddle's third thread

[Nomopo]

FWIW . . .

I think you shouldn't let him work the numbers or drive finances, etc. You should do your own research. [. . .] Much wiser to get the money. You need to figure out if some things like homeschooling are even financially feasible. [. . .] You should go into any mediation with a pretty good idea of what you want out of all this.

I agree.

You aren't ready to date, [. . . .] It's still too new to you.

Yeah, I agree too, but if you think you can go out and have fun without getting into something (which would be tough tough tough), . . .

I do believe it would pique your H's interest in you, but emotionally, you aren't ready for that.

Yep and yep.

Lastly, from what little I read, I would say that some of your husband's anger may be the fact that you are getting a life and he doesn't like it. I think there is some jealousy involved. It may even explain why he'd like to pin you at home with the kids.

Wholeheartedly agree!!

Nomo