Hardly faking it anymore: Puddle's third thread

[Heimlich]

Wait until mediation on the logistics of the D unless you feel your H is willing to discuss things with you openly. Speculating why he's changing is pointless, as you know. Home school v work v freelance are all things you knew you'd have to consider anyway. I think you're more surprised that H brought it up and is pushing this forward. Nothing new or surprising here, I don't think.

On the guy thing. Given the content of your conversation, I'm going to go out on a limb and say that he's definately interested in you. If he was interested in you while you were married . . .

Get your separation agreement in place first. Given that your H is wanting to see other people, there most likely won't be a non-dating clause. Then, if you want to go for a beer/coffee with the guy, go ahead.

BD