no, not at all. well in all honesty, the break down of his relationship with the OW was a big one. During the break down of his relationship with her, I was there to be his friend. I think the fact that he finally realized that through all this I stood by him, and he was able to finally starting to see things very clearly.
Toward the end before the breakdown of his relationship with the OW, I started standing up for myself. In the beginning I think I took DB'ing to far and was getting walked all over. So I sort of was following a litte bit of Dobson's Love must be tough, and db'ing techniques, but most of all, I took care of myself. Stood up for my beliefs, and stayed his friend.
