I'll look forward to hearing what you have to say! Thanks for checking in.
Two new things: H apologized for being a jerk, said the concert and camping weren't supposed to be the same weekend (they were; I said nothing), but said there was no excuse for his anger.
Second: He's been talking to someone and has changed his tune on the money side of things. Originally he said he wanted to be sure not to "burden" me with any more woes, so we'd keep the house, he'd pay whatever regardless of what the law said, etc.
Now he says I can buy him out or we can sell next year, asks if I'm planning to continue homeschooling, gave me a child-support number he's heard, etc.
This is a scary change for me, and part of me wants to point out the impact so far---no remodel, may have to sell the house, may have to put the kids in school to work, etc---and tell him this change in attitude makes me anxious.
Bad idea? Just keep my mouth shut and deal with it through mediation? Help.
Okay, and I'm still veeeery curious to hear people's thoughts about the guy thing.
