She sounds pretty detached right now and just about the only thing that you can do is let her go. You can try retro, but if she is as closed as you say that she is, it may not be the right time. Stop the pursuit. Stop trying to talk her out of what she has decided to do. Just about all that you can do is show her how you are strong, that you will choose happiness, and that you hope to have the opportunity some day to rebuild your marriage.
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair
