OT, curious about one other ting. My 10-year anniversary is Nov. 8th. Planning on doing nada. Your thoughts please?
Even though you didn't ask me, Nomo, I'll throw in my opinion that you shouldn't do anything. My feelings on these situations now is this: buy a card (not a real mushy one; maybe a fairly neutral or blank Anniversary card). Write a nice message in it that stays clear of any overtly pursuing, yet says something about how you've valued the years spent together and what that has brought you (something like that). Then... keep it and don't give it to her UNLESS she gives you something first. If she doesn't, I'd toss it afterwards. Like the Boy Scouts motto says: "Be Prepared!"
Again, just my opinion. Still curious about what others such as OT, Just Me, etc, think.
