Still, I feel your pain. My W and I have gotten along over the last month. I believe that the key is that she has to see the changes in you, you can't tell her that you've changed. I learned that the hard way, but thankfully it was not a fatal mistake. She has to discover your changes herself. If you tell her you've changed, she won't believe it and she will resist you. However, if she notices those changes on her own, she will be more open to the idea that you have indeed changed. Remember, this is a marathon and not a sprint and there will be both good and bad days. Good luck.
