wouldn't that be great, jarhead, if we could skip all the middle crap that we have to work thru if we are ever going to reconcile? seriously. I watched some of a favorite show of mine, where two of the characters had been broken up for a while. then one of them says this:

"Things fall apart. They fall apart so hard...You can't ever put 'em back the way they were...it's just... You know, it takes time. You can't just have coffee and expect...There's just so much to work through. Trust has to be built again on both sides. You have to learn if - if we're even the same people we were. If you can fit in each others lives. It's a long and important process, and can we just skip it? Can you just be kissing me now?"

I wish it were that easy. but its not. ugh.

Last edited by morgan; 10/22/07 07:01 PM.
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Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

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