Soul-mate, my sitch is similar to yours except for I signed the papers over a month ago. Our issues boiled down to bickering all the time, none of the big reasons for D. There has not been one word about a D since signing papers. We are seperated presently (40 days) but have not argued except one or two times. I dunno, I thought once the papers were signed it would be over. Heck, I have told her on 2 separate occassions (while arguing) to go ahead and file, yet, nothing. W may or may not be seeing someone else, who knows. I do know that she is seemingly happy when we speak, laughing and such. I act happy and relaxed (yeah, it is an act). Definitely no relationship talk, at all. Confusing. Guess I am the mayor of Limboville.