The problem is the MC tends to side with H and has told me if I can't deal with it, it is my problem...not in those words exactly...she did say I can't focus on the past but I feel like I am putting myself on the line... I am still trying to do a good job with all the comments I get and how stupid I am for taking H back...all I say is Unless you are faced with what I was faced with you don't know what you would do. I try to let the anger go...that is why I do not have a conversation about it daily with H...I have learned to talk "fairly"...I am one of those who would drag everything but the kitchen sink in.... I definitely have changed...I am just so hurt. Does that go away??
