Theo -
I remember you had the meeting the day we met. Interview was with MS (I think...).

Thanks for the compliment, but I don't know if I am DBing so much as acting in a self-preservation response to being $hit upon for so many months. I am growing weary living with an unfaithful wife. Energy spent fighting about (or for) my marriage is becoming a waste of energy. What with global warming and all that, I feel a responsibility to preserve energy...

But seriously, to me, fighting for, and working for the preservation or recovery of my marriage is quickly becoming an exercise in futility. Part of me wishes she would go ahead and file so I can go about the business of getting on with my life.

And I don't know about unflagging discipline. I don't snoop, and I am not taking any of her bait. Not sure where that will lead me.

I think your wife is giving a lot of alien spew. She knows what happened - probably expected it. I would wager that her boyfriend did. Let her go throw her tantrum. She knows what happened...


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9