I think women are "programmed" to believe that all men want is sex. We honestly don't get that it's way more than that to you guys!
As an aside, during the whole D sitch, I got first hand knowledge of the "rejection" feeling --- I would try to initiate and would hear such things as "I don't want THAT from you." I can honestly say I understand now -- and, yes, it does suck ===============
amen sister, it must've hurt my H so much each time I rejected him, each time he'd eagerly waited for me to get to the bedroom while I sat in the kitchen w/my tea reading instead of going to him, when he'd reach over and I'd groaned a "ahhh, come on! it's so late!" , he'd even begged me some nights, I recoil thinking of those times.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
