Did he show a difference of behavior and attitude shortly after entering the academy? ================== nah, he seemed the usual (whatever "usual" it was for us after the 1rst bomb. It wasnt' until now that he started behaving that way.
Congrats on the anniversary!!, how sweet enjoy your cake.
======= so my eyes teared up, and he asked what's wrong with your eyes? DUH!! ======================= jeez! that's my H, if I'm upset and quiet here goes the question"what's wrong w/u, are you mad?"
================= , but he was a different person now, and was going to say what was on his mind, even if someone's feelings got hurt. T ================= This hit home big time. His T told him that he has to be brutally honest, so for a while, and stilla bit now, he's this way, needs LOTS of fine tuning, because there's being honest, then there's being crass. And also because this is a big one for H, he's always felt he never could tell his opinion because I'd jump up and dissagree or dismantle it. I'm afraid that was true in the past, i'm trying hard to keep my mouth shut now when I strongly dissagree with him, because he gets so defensive, afraid I won't let him get his point across at all. Througout all his life he's bottled up his emotions/opinions, so now he's trying to do the oposite, and it is very hard for him to do so.
Anyways, have a great time hon!!!! I'll live vicarously through you today, hope you have a great time hon.
Things still on hiatus with my H, sometimes it is like loving the wall, but I'm whole thanks to the Lord, so I'll be OK, I just pray my H gets through the prob. period fine, I know he's got a one track mind, and right now he's worried about it, and yes, he's messed up quiet a few times and he's been told he had to shape up in 77 days or he d be fired.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
enjoy your cake. 
