another bomb is dropped

[Jen_Jam]

Could be those seeds of doubt ..... right now it could go this way:
1. W has seeds of doubt - very important now you stay on track, a backslide will make her feel justified that your changes aren't permanent
2. She may well decide they aren't permanent anyway - don't let that discourage you. My H refused to belive the evidence right in front of his eyes for ages.
3. Remember it takes a lot to take a step outside of the comfort zone .. she can easliy be frightened back to it. Think of her a little as a timid animal.

And one thing to add... when I was changing I thought it was obvious that I was changing and H should just get with the program! Then when HE started changing it took a LOT of time for me to believe he was changing permenently.