Last night he was poking around in the fridge and said something about not much food; he asked if I was eating out a lot and I said "nah. Just not eating much." and he said "Oh, are you losing weight?" I said "to a degree" and left it at that.
My advice to you, is to not beat around the bush with him about that. If you're really planning to "get in shape", that means both eating well, AND an excercise program. The sooner you pick one, and let your husband know about it, the better for your relationship, if you really intend on doing it.
PLEASE trust me on this, and do it today. you're running out of time here. Why put it off any longer, if you really plan to do it?
As far as retroville goes... typical school of thought would say, "no pressure". but with your wierdo husband maybe you need more pressure. Once again, though, I will suggest that you bring it up, only after you have announced that you are starting an excercise program. For multiple reasons:
1. it will put him in a positive mood about you, that you are trying to fulfil his desires in that area
2. it shows that you are willing to change. which in itself, may make him also more receptive to change himself.
PS: little do they realize, that he DOES have a "crazy stalker wife"... ahahaha....
Last edited by Dom R; 10/22/0705:04 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
maybe you need more pressure.
