I am hopefully that things will turn around for us but it gets harder the longer the time goes by but supposedly it is that time that makes them want us back. I find that strange because at times due to all of this time apart I am questioning whether I want him back but this same time will make him want to come back. It is quite the dilemna.
The ring question now that is a tough one. I really do not know what to say on that one so hopefully someone else will have some advice for you on that one. Did you sign the papers? Maybe that could be a stipulation that she gives you back the rings especially if you are still paying for them. I am assuming she is not wearing them anymore correct. I still have mine on. Have you talked with a lawyer at all? Maybe they could help you. I wish I could but I really do not know on this one.
I totally agree with you on the dilemna, its like damned if you do and damned if you dont. The last time I asked her if she wore the rings, she said yes. But now I do not think she has them on b/c of the single status on myspace. I still wear mine also. No I have not signed anything, she hasnt even filed for them yet. She is filing them sometime next month. I hope that someone will give me some advise on the rings....