That is hard. I understand. I believe that my WAW spent years holding back her frustrations and avoiding conflict. Those days are gone. She has an amazingly low tolerance for anything that I do that is not exactly in tune with her wishes. I have found that running around trying to please her and constantly appoligizing satisfies neither of us. So, I have been avoiding her and those kind of conversation. If she starts to rant, I sit there and take it, but usually refrain from responding. I'm hoping that there is a pendulum swinging, and eventually she will level off to some balance between advocating for her self and respecting another’s opinion.
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair
