Update: I have calmed down a bit. I don't think W is having A. She has had guy friends while we were married and I believe she would have told me if she were, keep in mind the papers have already been signed. I am so glad that I did not fly into a fit of rage. Talk about making matters worse. Anyhow, I think I will go into stealth mode for awhile and leave her to whatever she is doing. I can't worry about that b/c I have things that I want and need to do. I am cautiously optimistic. I am also considering setting an appointment with a phone coach. Anyone have any reccomendations as to whom I should request? Any input is greatly appreciated. Thanks
