Mwel you have hit the nail on the head. It is tough to be alone and feel unloved. But we are great people and they just do not see it now but someday they will be kicking themselves for what they have done to us.
My weekend was good up until the slip up last night but I am trying to just get past that. I just have to stop asking questions about what he is doing since I really do not want to know about her and him. He has only mentioned her for this weekend and made it out to be a group thing so not sure what is up with that yet but we shall see I guess
i agree, we are great people and sometimes I wish that my W would see that and see what she is leaving, I know the same probably goes for you with your H. Who know's maybe our situation will turn out like just_me's...divorce and then remarry our Ex. I like to think that would happen cause no matter what she has done, I can learn to forgive. But for now, I just realized that I need to be happy with me and for me. Even thought I will never give up hope, I will continue to work on me and change for the better. Im glad your weekend was good until that time. Yeah I know, we want to know what they have been doing and when they tell you, you wished you wouldn't have asked. Human nature I guess.
I do have one question..I would like to ask her for the rings back, one becuase I do not want her to pawn them in, maybe someday she will change her mind and want me back and lastly Im still paying on them. Should I ask for them back or should I let her keep them to remember what she left? I personally do not think that she will think of me or even look at them, I think that she will just pawn them in...should I ask for them back?
